How to Free Your Partner and (adventure wedding) Why is it So Difficult?
No commentsBy Vicka Tanski
In every relationship there are permitted and forbidden things. Sometimes we decide what are that things together with our partner and sometimes just in our mind.
How do we decide where the edge is and how much we can free our lover?
It depends on how much we love OURSELVES. It’s not a mistake, I really mean us. There is no connection to how much we love our partner.
The real reason to difficulty to free is FEAR:
1) We are afraid that our lover will enjoy the freedom and all the things that he meet there and will not want any more to come back to us.
2) When he/she enjoy someone very attractive from the opposite gender, it can be difficult because all we’ll see: I’m not good enough, or beautiful enough.
3) When we believe that we are not whole and not completed, we will want our partner to fill that lack. We will try to keep them close, because if they go we will have to face that hole inside, that lack of self love. And it can be painful.
But think, do you really want to be with someone, who stays with you only because he has no choice? Or
with one who is with you because he wants to?
Do you think that anything someone does can really heart you? It can’t even touch you!
All your feelings are just a reaction to judgment of the situation, to your thoughts. The reaction to the stories you are telling to yourself about what is happening. Stop to believe to that stupid stories and the suffering will disappear.
When you realize that all you are afraid of is unreal, that it’s only in your mind, there will not be any problem to free your partner. It’s absolutely his own business what he has in his life except you. Just as it’s your business what you are doing with yourself and with your life.
Be one with another to celebrate, not to run away from yourself. When the relationship comes from the right place, there is no problem to free one another. You don’t depend on anyone to feel great.
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To your freedom,
Vicka Tanski.
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